How to Raise Kids Who Won’t Hate Church
My child loving the church his whole life isn’t a given, and neither is it for yours.
My son gets to hang out in my office quite often. I love that he loves it. Maybe his love is rooted in the toys and candy I keep in the bottom drawer, just for him. But maybe it’s because he just genuinely loves me. I’m banking solely on #1 at this point in his life.
This week, though, my wife was out of town, and Rex had to go to work with me all day.
I had to jump on a conference call, and the movie he was watching was a little loud. I asked him if he wouldn’t mind putting some headphones on. Then he gave me this look.
He’s got the sass of his mama.
One of my goals of fatherhood is to raise a son that doesn’t hate church.
It’s not a given reality that my son will grow up loving the Church. As a pastor’s kid, he’s got an uphill battle ahead, especially considering the pastors’ kids I knew growing up. Right now, he’s loving Longhollow, where I’m on staff. But we’ve got a lot of years ahead of us, and I’ve got a lot of work to do to keep us on this path.
My child loving the church his whole life isn’t a given … and neither is it for yours.
Should you ‘force’ your kids to go to church? Or let them choose?
Should you let them go to the main worship service with you when they want? Or put them in the kids area?
Let them wear what they want? Or dress them to the nines?
Here are some intentional actions I’m taking to keep my son from growing up to hate the Church.
Eight Ways to Ensure Your Kids Won’t Hate Church:
1. Make small group a priority in your life.
Every week, my wife and I go to small group. We help Rex understand how important it is for mommy and daddy to do this, and that through it, we become better parents.
2. Go to churches with amazing children’s ministries.