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7 Sexual Lines No Pastor Should Ever Cross

The “do nots” clearly have no end. But here are seven “dos” which a minister will want to observe to keep the enemy at bay …

1. When complimented inappropriately, laugh it off and change the subject.

“Oooh, pastor, you look so good today.”

“Mmmm, preacher, I like the way that suit looks on you.”

“Have you been working out, Brother Al? You’re looking good.”

The insecure pastor soaks this stuff up like a sponge. But you are not insecure. “You are complete in Christ” (Colossians 2:10).

Do not acknowledge the compliment. It will only encourage her.

Laugh briefly, then ask about her family or something—anything!—to change the subject.

2. Anticipate situations that may arise during the day and plan appropriately.

That is, if you know a woman is coming for counseling, make sure your secretary or another minister is just outside the door. Pray always the Lord will guard you and give you wisdom about these things.

3. When you are close to some woman other than your wife, and you begin to sense all the signs of attraction—your temperature rising, your blood pressure elevating—walk away quickly.

Make up an excuse, even if it’s only that, “I just remembered something; I’ll be right back.”

Then, get to your office or pretend to make a phone call and talk to the Lord. Ask for His divine protection.

Just because your chemistry with that person is strong does not make it right. As a mature follower of Jesus Christ, you are beyond running your life by your feelings. (You are, aren’t you?)