In order for all the saints (you) to do the work of the ministry as the New Testament teaches (Ephesians 4:11), you need to gather regularly in smaller forms of togetherness. Here is what I think should characterize all these various forms.
1) They should be small: more than 6-8 will require very long meetings or either someone will stay quiet.
2) They should be regular and frequent: once a week is natural; less than once every two weeks may not build closeness.
3) The series should be of limited duration: set a time when the group will dissolve, at least for awhile. For example, say “Let’s meet once a week through the end of the year, or through May.” Otherwise, groups peter out and you feel guilty. You can always start again.
4) There must be commitment to attend except in emergency. Don’t enter a group until you have counted the cost.
5) There should be accountability to each other: that is, we ought not to feel put out when a group asks if we have followed through on a resolution.
6) The aim of every group should be, in general, the “advancement and joy” of each other’s faith (Philippians 1:25). No group should view fellowship as an end in itself (though it is precious!). The aim is the transformation of our lives for the sake of winning others to Christ and bringing honor to his name.
7) Every group, whether it involves direct Bible study or not, should be penetrated by biblical consolations and exhortations. It is the Word of God that begets faith. So we must convey it to each other from the heart.
8) Every meeting should include prayer. It would be a contradiction to gather in God’s name and not invoke his presence, plead his help and thank him for his goodness. Brief sentence prayers are better than long, all-inclusive prayers.
9) There should always be opportunity for everyone to talk to others about his concerns. It should not be a lecture time.
